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Identifying and Transforming your Temperament - PH86-01 Advanced Bible Doctrine - Philippians 4:8-9© Berean Memorial Church of Irving, Texas, Inc. (1976)
We continue now with our study of happiness. We have learned some very definite things thus far from Philippians about that subject.
We have found, through the apostle Paul, that personal happiness depends upon feeding the mind with divine viewpoint ideas, and upon acting
according to Bible doctrine principles. These are absolutely essential to personal happiness. Nobody can be happy without these two things.
So, first of all, you must be a born again believer – one who is in the family of God through faith in Christ. Then the mind has to be
fed on doctrine, and the actions have to be compatible to doctrine. So a person's mental focus, Paul says, and his actions (his thinking
and his experience), program a certain quality within us that causes us to move to certain goals. It is the subconscious which is actually
programmed by our thinking and by our actions. It causes this part of our being to seek out, inevitably, certain goals. So all the use of
the years of your life is going to be determined by your subconscious.
So an interesting fact evolves as we study ourselves, and as we study our reactions. We realize that anytime our volition conflicts with
what we have programmed ourselves to be, our volition loses, and our programming wins. That's very important for us to understand. That is
the result anytime our volition comes into conflict with our programming. That is, we know we should do this; we know we should act in this
way; and, we know we should be proceeding in this direction, but if we have programmed ourselves against that, the programming will win, and
your volition will be overridden. That is what causes that desperate cry that goes up from so many people, "Why do I do these things? I don't
want to be this way. Why am I so helpless in the presence of this sin? Why am I so helpless in the presence of this temptation?" Because you
programmed yourself to be like that. You can also change it.
So this is a very important piece of information. That is why, in Philippians 4:8-9, the apostle Paul stresses these two points. It's a
matter of what you think, and it's a matter of your experience of what you do that determines how your goal-seeking mechanism that God
has built into your being in the form of the subconscious will lead you. So it's what you think about, and it is what you do, that program
your subconscious to guide you toward the goals that bring either happiness or unhappiness.
One of the saddest sights is a person who has programmed himself with human viewpoint thinking and human viewpoint actions – to see him
standing there, bruised and bewildered, amidst the disastrous consequences of his own programming. He used his thinking to focus on evil.
He used his eyes to indulge in lust. He used his ears to receive that which was degrading. He used the members of his body in a
dishonorable way. Everything that poured into his inner being programmed him to a disaster. And one day, everything collapses on him, and
he stands in the midst of the debris, wondering, "How did this happen to me?" So unless the mental focus is radically changed to divine
viewpoint, and the practice is humbly submitted to Bible doctrine guidance, the future of these wounded animals is going to be another
disaster. They are doomed to repeat their errors.
The Four Temperaments
So we have been adding to this study of happiness the fact that all of us have an inherited temperament which can contribute to our
happiness, or destroy it. This is the pure raw material of which we were made by birth. We saw that there were four basic types observed
historically. One was called the sanguine type. This is the happy-go-lucky optimist who fails to keep his promises. The second was the
choleric type. He's the practical activist who is able to drive on to a goal. The third was the melancholy. He is the appreciator of
beauty, and capable of rich emotional experiences. Fourth was the phlegmatic, the easygoing, nice guy who avoids getting involved in
anything.
These types are the variety (I want you to remember) which got built into the creation of mankind. These types are not evil. The fact that
these people are like this is not evil. The fact that they are like this is not sinful. All four temperaments were a part of God's creation.
If there is one thing you will observe about God's creation, it is that He has a variety. God is a God of color, variety, and divergence.
That's what makes life interesting. He is not a God of monotony. This quality is reflected in God's creation of human beings – thus,
the four types. The original creation had only the strengths. We have shown you that each particular temperament has certain strengths
and certain weaknesses.
But I want you to remember that, originally, whatever type Adam was, was all strengths of that type. Whatever type Eve was, was all strengths
of that type. There were no weaknesses whatsoever in either one of them. Had they not fallen into sin and brought the old sin nature, which
brought the weaknesses into the temperaments, their children would have been born with temperaments that had only the strengths, and none
of the weaknesses. So the weaknesses that we've been referring to are not inherently part of the temperament. They are a quality which has
been interjected by the fact that man fell into sin. The old sin nature came in and began distorting something beautiful that God created,
just as it always does. Sin always distorts something that God has made.
Neutralizing your Weaknesses
So a Christian, through the programming of divine viewpoint thinking, and of being controlled in his actions by Bible doctrine principles,
can neutralize the weaknesses of his temperament. That is the point of this study. We don't want you just to come and realize that you're
a certain temperament or a combination of temperaments, and consequently, you have certain weaknesses, and then go home and brood about it.
One of the classic books written on this was by a man named Hallesby, published in the early 1960s, who was a Norwegian. It was written in
Norwegian, and translated, and is a rather classical book on the temperament studies. Modern temperament studies are all, more or less, based
upon his research. But one of the serious mistakes that Hallesby made was, for example, on the melancholic temperament. The
melancholic temperament, as one writer said, after he got through reading Hallesby's analysis, was that if he was a melancholy, "He'd take a
gun, and go out and shoot himself."
This was because he did not make allowance for the fact that while the melancholic, like all other temperaments, had some very disastrous
weaknesses, and he thought they had more than others, he did not fully understand, or at least stress, that all these things can be reversed.
That is, the weaknesses that are not inherent in these temperaments, but like barnacles, they have attached themselves through sin, so
the things can be peeled back off. I want to stress that because the weaknesses can be reversed, and that's a happy note.
So part of the building of a spiritual maturity structure in your soul is to identify your temperament with its weaknesses, and to neutralize
them through the building of a spiritual maturity structure. Non-Christian psychologists and psychiatrists do not believe there is a God.
Therefore, they do not believe that there is a Holy Spirit who can neutralize the old sin nature weaknesses of these temperaments through
the intake of doctrine. Consequently, they come up with an atheistic humanism that simply adapts itself to these weaknesses. Psychiatrists
and psychologists really end up encouraging people to indulge their weaknesses, and saying, "This is the way you are. Just go ahead and do
what comes naturally."
Sanguines and Cholerics
Our temperament strengths contribute to our happiness, but our weaknesses destroy our happiness. Therefore, an understanding of these
temperaments is helpful to us. That's not only because we learn our strengths, but perhaps more so that we learn our weaknesses, and thus
we know how to zero in on correction. Thus far, we have looked at the fact that the sanguine has several strengths. He also has several
weaknesses. We've seen that the choleric has several strengths and several weaknesses.
Melancholy Strengths
We're now going to take up the melancholy temperament. The melancholy has various strengths. He is gifted. He has an analytical mind. He is
a very sensitive person. He is a perfectionist. He likes to get the details right. He has a deep aesthetic sense. That's why so many artists
are of this temperament. He is idealistic. He is very loyal. He is extremely self-sacrificing. In Spirit-Controlled Temperament, by
Tim LaHaye, he has this summary of the strengths of the melancholy type:
"Mr. Melancholy has by far the richest and most sensitive nature of all the temperaments. He is genius prone. That is, a higher percentage
of geniuses are melancholy than any other type. He particularly excels in the fine arts with a vast appreciation for life's true values. He
is emotionally responsive. But unlike the sanguine, is motivated to reflective thinking through his emotions. Mr. Melancholy is particularly
adept at creative thinking, and at high emotional peaks, will often launch into an invention or creative production that is worthwhile and
wholesome. Mr. Melancholy has strong perfectionist tendencies. His standard of excellence exceeds others, and his requirements of
acceptability in any field are often higher than either he or anyone else can maintain. This tendency leads him into much introspection, and
he often relives events and decisions made in the past, thinking how much better he would do it if given another opportunity.
"The analytical abilities of the melancholy, combined with his perfectionist tendencies, make him a hound for detail. Whenever
a project is suggested by a choleric or sanguine temperament, Mr. Melancholy can analyze it in a few moments, and pick out every potential
problem they will encounter. He often appears to be against things by his constant reference to potential problems, but they are real to him.
This analytical ability well qualifies him for such fields as mathematics; theoretical science; diagnostic medicine; architecture;
philosophy; writing; and, other exacting vocations. Those blessed with the melancholy temperament do not have to strive to be faithful.
With them, it is natural. A melancholy person usually does not attract a large number of friends, as does the sanguine. But he will keep those
he attracts, and would literally lay down his life for his friends.
"A melancholy person can always be depended upon to finish his job in the prescribed time, or to carry his end of the load. Mr. Melancholy
rarely seeks to be in the limelight, but prefers to do the behind-the-scenes tasks. He often chooses a very sacrificial vocation for life,
for he has an unusual gift to give himself to the betterment of his fellow man. Mr. Melancholy has the wonderful capacity of knowing his
limitations, and so rarely takes on more than he can do. He is prone to be reserved, and rarely volunteers his opinion or ideas. When asked,
however, he almost always has an opinion, and when it is offered, his answer indicates that he has analyzed the situation quite deeply, and
offers an opinion well worth hearing. He does not waste words like the sanguine, but is usually very precise in stating exactly what he means."
Melancholy Weaknesses
The melancholy, with these particular splendid strengths, also has his set of weaknesses. The most outstanding weakness of the melancholy
temperament is his self-centeredness. Along with this, he is moody. He tends to be negative. He is theoretical because of his analytical
qualities. He is often impractical. He is unsociable. He is critical. He has a deep streak of being revengeful, and tends to be rigid.
Spirit-Control Temperament has this to say about the weaknesses of Mr. Melancholy:
"The self-centered traits of the melancholy temperament are superbly described by Dr. Hallesby, and for that reason, I quote his entire
description. 'He is surely more self-centered than any of the other temperaments. He is inclined to that kind of self-examination, that
kind of self-contemplation, which paralyzes his will and energy. He is always dissecting himself and his own mental conditions, taking off
layer after layer as an onion is peeled, until there is nothing direct and artless left in his life. There is only his everlasting
self-examination. This self-examination is not only unfortunate, but it is harmful.
"'Melancholies usually drift into morbid mental conditions. They are concerned not only about their spiritual state, but they are also unduly
concerned about their physical condition. Everything that touches a melancholic is of prime importance to him. Hence, no other type can so
easily become a hypochondriac.'"
Mr. LaHaye continues:
"This self-centered trait in the melancholy, if not corrected, can actually ruin his entire life. Combined with his sensitive nature,
his self-centeredness makes it very easy for him to be offended or insulted. He literally carries his feelings on his sleeve. He is
prone to be suspicious, given over to evil surmisings. If two people are talking in hushed tones, he is almost certain to jump to the
conclusion that they are talking about him. This type of thinking can lead, in severe cases, to a persecution complex. Because of his
perfectionist and analytical traits, Mr. Melancholy is prone to be pessimistic. He not only can see the ultimate end of a project, but,
what is more real to him, all the problems that will be encountered. Many times these problems in his mind far outweigh the good
accomplished in the whole endeavor. Not only that, he is sure that the end result will not be nearly as good as promised. Since he has
been disappointed in the past, he is sure to be disappointed again.
"This pessimistic outlook makes him indecisive and fearful of making decisions because he doesn't want to be wrong, and fall short of his own
perfectionist standards. No one can be more critical than the melancholy. He has the tendency to be unyielding in his expectations
of other human beings, and cannot happily take less than their very best. Many a perfectionist has ruined a normally good marriage
because his partner measured up to only 90 percent of what was expected of her. The small part of error is looked at through a magnifying
glass of perfectionism, and instead of seeing all the good, he sees an amplification of the bad. This criticism, if not spoken, is often
conveyed through a proud, haughty, sometimes arrogant, attitude because he looks upon people who do not share his perfection standards as
being inferior.
"It should be borne in mind that he is just as critical of himself as he is of other people. When it comes to marriage, the
melancholy often has the most difficult time making the decision to take the fatal plunge. He is prone to idealize a woman from a distance,
and then when he gets to know her, as lovely as she may be, he finds that she is only a human being, and has her weaknesses. Many times, a
melancholy will actually love the woman in spite of her weaknesses, but hesitate to marry her because of them. Dr. Hallesby states that a
great many men are unmarried simply because they are melancholic. They themselves may think that they are melancholy because they're bachelors.
The truth of the matter is they are probably bachelors because they are melancholy.
"No one manifests a greater mood change than does the melancholy. On occasions he will be found at high emotional peaks of exuberance. But
these are usually the exception, and not the rule. More frequently, Mr. Melancholy will be found, when not energized by the Holy Spirit,
to be very gloomy and depressed, or going through a period of great despair. It is his common tendency that caused Hippocrates to think of him
as the black fluid type. This moodiness causes a vicious circle. Even those who like him when he is acting like himself will become annoyed
or disgusted with him, when, for seemingly no reason, he is going through a gloomy period. They will consequently avoid him, and his
sensitive nature will immediately pick this up and plunge him into greater depths of gloom.
"One trait alone can wreck the entire life of a melancholy person unless he turns to Jesus Christ for the joy and peace that He alone can give.
The moodiness is often the result of his self-centered thinking pattern, which must be changed to produce a healthy mind, and make it possible
for his rich and capable nature to produce its maximum potential. The gloomy moods of Mr. Melancholy often lead him into a habit of escaping
present reality through the practice of daydreaming. Because he is so dissatisfied with the imperfect present, he has a tendency to look back
on the past, which becomes more pleasant the farther it gets from him. When he tires of thinking of the past, he dreams of the wonderful future.
This type of thinking that lets him escape from reality is most dangerous indeed. It not only paralyzes his will and energy, but can lead to
schizophrenia.
"A melancholy person should earnestly seek the Holy Spirit's help in getting his eyes up off himself and onto the whitened harvest field of
needy people around him. One of the most dynamic illustrations of the power of the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ is to see a gloomy, moody,
melancholy person transformed by God's grace and armed with the Great Commission, so that he has a lofty purpose for living that directs his
conscious thinking toward others rather than himself.
"Another characteristic of the melancholy temperament is that he is prone to be revengeful. In himself, he finds it very difficult to
forgive an affront or an insult. Although he appears on the surface to be calm or quiet, many times there is turbulent hatred and
animosity burning within. He may never put it into action, as would a choleric, but he may harbor his animosity and desire for revenge
for many years. This unforgiving spirit, and seeking for revenge, sometimes outweighs his brilliant deductive ability, and causes him
to make decisions on the basis of prejudice. He may seek to destroy a very worthwhile project with which he is basically in agreement,
merely because the person leading the project has, at some time in the past, offended him. Although he does not generally erupt into
violent anger, if animosity is harbored long enough, it may cause him to lose complete control of himself in a fit of rage.
"Now that we have seen both the strengths and weaknesses of the melancholy temperament, our attention is drawn to an interesting fact.
The temperament with the greatest strengths and potential is also accompanied by what seems to be the largest of potential weaknesses.
This may account for personal observation that there are very few average melancholies. That is, a melancholy person will utilize his
strengths to the point that he stands above his fellows. Or he will be dominated by his weaknesses, and sink beneath the level of his
fellows, giving himself over to becoming a neurotic; disconsolate; or, hypochondriac type of individual that neither enjoys himself nor
is enjoyed by others."
"Melancholy people should take consolation in the fact that many of the most outstanding men in the Bible were predominantly melancholy.
The success, however, of these men was that they believed God. Faith in Christ lifts a person beyond his own temperament to the point
that he lives the new life in Christ Jesus. The primary needs of the melancholy life are: love; joy; peace; goodness; faith; and,
self-control. The melancholy is characterized by artists; musicians; inventors; philosophers; professors; and, educators."
Phlegmatic Strengths
Now we come to the last temperament type. If you have not found yourself thus far, this may be what you're looking for – the phlegmatic.
The strength of the phlegmatic is that he is calm; he is easygoing; he is dependable; he is efficient; he is conservative; he is very
practical; he's a leader; he's diplomatic; and, he's very humorous. Spirit-Controlled Temperament has this to say about the strengths
of the phlegmatic.
"The unexcited good humor of the phlegmatic keeps him from being intensely involved with life and things, so that he can often see humor in
the most mundane experiences. His dry sense of humor evokes peals of laughter from others. He seems to have a superb inborn sense of timing
in the art of humor, and a stimulating imagination. He is highly qualified by nature to be a counselor. His slow, easygoing manner makes it
easy for him to listen, whereas the sanguine and choleric temperaments find it difficult to sit still long enough to hear the heartaches of
others. He also has the ability to keep from identifying himself with the person. Therefore, he can be objective. He does not blurt out his
advice, but gives thoughtful counsel well worth hearing.
"Mr. Phlegmatic is dependability itself. Not only can he be depended upon to always be his cheerful, good-natured self, but he can be depended
upon to fulfil his obligations and time schedules. Like the melancholy, he is a very faithful friend. Although he does not get too involved
with others, he rarely proves disloyal.
"Mr. Phlegmatic is also practical and efficient. He conserves his own energy by thinking. Thus, he early develops his capabilities to analyze
the situation. Since he is not emotionally stimulated to make sudden decisions, he has a tendency to find the practical way to accomplish an
objective with the least amount of effort. He works well under pressure. In fact, he often does his best work under circumstances that would
cause other temperaments to crack. His work always bears the hallmark of neatness and efficiency. Although he is not a perfectionist, he does
have exceptionally high standards of accuracy and precision. The neatness of his desktop in the midst of a great project is always a source of
amazement to the more active temperaments. But he has just found that putting everything in its exact spot is much easier and less time consuming
in the long run. Therefore, he is a man of orderly habits."
Phlegmatic Weaknesses
Now, when we come to the other side of the picture as to the weaknesses of the phlegmatic, we find that he is stingy; he is fearful; he is
indecisive; he wants to be a spectator rather than a participant; he is self-protective; he has a strong streak of selfishness; and, he is
unmotivated. Spirit-Controlled Temperament has this to say about his weaknesses:
"The outstanding weakness of Mr. Phlegmatic is that he is prone to be slow and lazy. He often appears to be dragging his feet because
he resents having been stimulated to action against his will. So he just goes along just as slowly as he can. His lack of motivation
tends to make him a spectator in life, and produces the inclination to do as little as necessary. This characteristic keeps him from
initiating many of the projects that he is thinking about, and very capable of executing. But to him, they just seem too much work.
The restlessness of the sanguine and the activity of the choleric often annoy him, because he is afraid they may motivate him to work.
Because of his keen sense of humor and his ability to be a detached observer, he finds it easy to use his witty ability to tease others
and annoy them, or threaten to motivate them.
"Dr. Hallesby has said in this regard, 'If the sanguine person enters warm and enthusiastic, the phlegmatic person becomes cold as ice.'
If the melancholy comes pessimistic and lamenting the miseries of the world, the phlegmatic becomes more optimistic than ever, and teases
him beyond endurance. If a choleric enters, brimful of his plans and projects, it is an exquisite pleasure for the phlegmatic to throw cold
water on his enthusiasm, and with his levelheadedness and keen understanding, it is an easy matter for him to point out the weaknesses of the
choleric's proposition. If he chooses, he can even use his humor and wit as a decisive tool to get others all stirred up and angry, while he
himself never loses his composure and becomes excited.
"Mr. Phlegmatic often exhibits the weakness of selfishness. This trait often becomes more apparent through the years, for he learns to protect
himself. He frequently finds himself in stubborn opposition to a change of any kind. His reason is that it will get him too involved. He wants
to be conservative, particularly in conserving his own energies. As he matures, he can often learn to disguise his stubbornness through his
easygoing good humor, while becoming even more stubborn. Each time he is forced by the activity of others into projects and activities that
turn out poorly, he becomes even more resistive to future suggestions. This stubbornness has a tendency also to make him stingy and selfish,
for his first thought usually is, "What is this going to cost me," or "What will this take out of me?"
"Although selfishness is a basic weakness of all four temperaments, Mr. Phlegmatic is probably cursed with the heaviest dose. Mr.
Phlegmatic often becomes more indecisive through the years – caused basically by his reticence to become involved. His practical
insight and calm analytical ability can usually find a better method for doing something. But by the time he comes up with it, one
of the activists already has the group moving on their program. Therefore, he only half-heartedly enters in, in proportion to what he
feels is required of him, because down in his heart, he feels his plan is better.
"Another thing that makes him indecisive is that, even though he can analyze the situation and come to a practical method for achieving it,
he will often weigh the method against whether or not he wants to get that involved. Thus, he is prone to vacillate between wanting to do
something and not wanting to pay the price. This indecisive practice can soon become a deep-rooted habit that outweighs his naturally
practical turn of mind. The phlegmatics make good diplomats; accountants; teachers; technicians; scientists; and, doctors."
Comparing the Temperaments to One Another
A summary statement on the strengths of the four temperaments and how they compare to one another:
"The hard-driving choleric produces the inventions of the genius-prone melancholy, which are sold by the personable sanguine, and enjoyed
by the easygoing phlegmatic."
As to a comparison of the weaknesses of these four types: "The sanguine type enjoys people and then forgets them. The melancholic is annoyed
with people, but lets them go their crooked ways. The choleric makes use of people for his own benefit. Afterwards, he ignores them. The
phlegmatic studies people with supercilious indifference."
So that's a pretty good summary, and I think it will give you a pretty clear picture of these types. Of course, our concern is, "How do we
change this?" The weaknesses are there. How do we deal with these temperaments? Then we're going to tell you how to spot yourself.
The Transformed Sanguine
Well, let's look at the sanguine – a transform sanguine. This is the very happy-go-lucky extrovert type. Well, he's still going to
be the extrovert type filled with energy, and empathy and compassion for people. But now, because he's born again; because he is building
a spiritual maturity structure in his soul; and, he's moving on to super grace level of living, certain things begin to take place relative
to his weaknesses that are absolutely astounding. The weaknesses begin to be phased out or brought under control. They begin to be
neutralized. The strengths begin to glow like gems in his character.
He talks as much as he did before he was saved, but the language now
is free from profanity and obscenity. He's still the source of humor at social gatherings, but his humor is no longer dirty, nor is it cruel,
making someone the brunt of a joke. He still enters into the feelings of people, but now he enters into those feelings with some divine
viewpoint understanding so that he directs them to the Word of God. His weak will that characterizes him now refuses to go along with the
crowd, or to take the path of least resistance, because he has developed the breastplate of righteousness through his spiritual maturity
structure. Therefore, he prefers to do what is right rather than, as once before, he preferred to go along with the crowd. He becomes
responsible for what he promises to do. The reason for this is that he becomes more practical and organized so that he is more productive,
and he starts coming to things on time. One of the characteristics of the sanguine is that he can never get any place on time.
He avoids tempting his propensity for sexual lust, so he maintains moral stability. In other words, he exercises a restraint upon himself
in this respect, which is a particular threat to the sanguine type, which he did not before. His restless nature and his outbursts of anger
are now controlled by understanding that the battle is the Lord's, so he comes to peace within himself. He just relaxes. His egocentric
quality, which is so strong, is changed by a genuine humility, so that he is no longer the braggart that he once was, but he considers what
others do; he looks upon the things of others; and, he thinks about the things of others. The sanguine can be a totally different, marvelous
person once the spiritual maturity structure does its work.
The Transformed Choleric
We see a similar transformation in the choleric. His transformation will not change the fact that he is a strong leader type, but now his
leadership is oriented to divine, eternal goals. His intensive drive in the flesh, which once carried him so far, has now changed to
functioning under the energy of the Holy Spirit. Inconsiderateness, which so characterize him, has changed to a genuine concern for people
in their spiritual disorientation and their struggles. He points people to the Lord Jesus Christ and to doctrine – not to some human
viewpoint activity. His inclination to anger and to get even has been changed into a spirit of waiting upon the Lord. So he stops retaliating,
and he leaves vengeance with the Lord.
His sarcastic superiority is tempered into an understanding and a patience toward people, so that he exercises a kindness toward their
frailties. His proud self-sufficiency is changed into a spirit of meekness and humility. He learns that he is dependent upon the Lord rather
than his own craftiness.
Instead of people fearing him, he actually becomes someone that people have an affection for and that they respect. His tendency to
be brusque and crude turns into genuine graciousness, courtesy, and refinement. His hot-tempered disposition and his inclination to carry
a grudge are reversed into patience and into a forgiving attitude. His impetuous decisiveness, his making a decision on an impetuous
moment of instinct is now changed to waiting upon the Lord rather than ramming an idea through. Success, instead of making him arrogant,
as it did in the past (and he enjoys a lot of success), and instead of making him domineering and self-confident, causes him to give glory
to the Lord, and thus he avoids becoming as obnoxious and boring to people as he once was. The choleric makes the magnificent leader type,
particularly when the weaknesses can be phased out.
The Transformed Melancholy
The melancholic, when he's transformed, continues with his natural emotional responses to human needs. But now they're directed to divine
viewpoint expressions rather than human viewpoint expressions. There's nobody so terrible to face human needs, especially in government,
as the melancholic type. He's the one who creates all the welfare programs, and just comes up with all the human good and the human
viewpoint solutions toward human need. His perfectionist contempt for carelessness of others will change to patience. Instead of contempt
for people, he will encourage them to do better next time, rather than being critical and arrogant. His capacity for self-sacrifice will be
channeled into divine good production so that he will have eternal results rather than the temporary human good production.
His great capacity to love people enables him to become a determined Christian witness. He's the kind who will not abandon the prospect,
but will pursue him both with the gospel and with divine viewpoint understanding when the other temperaments will abandon the prospect.
His inclination to self-centeredness will be changed by his occupation with Christ. He gets his eyes off himself, so he's able to
be involved with others. He stops being easily offended and easily insulted. He realizes that God does not get things done through
his perfectionism, but that God gets things done through his being available for the Lord's service. Therefore, he does his best as
unto the Lord, and he leaves it with the Lord. That's a great step forward for the melancholic type when he realizes that it is not
his perfectionism that God uses. It is his availability to God.
His inclination to pessimism, which so plagues him, will be changed by viewing things through the power of God with whom all things are
possible. He becomes a person of faith and of expectation rather than of pessimism. His natural moodiness is stabilized by the inner
happiness quality of the spiritual maturity structure which he has built in his soul. He avoids depression in this way, through the filling
of the Spirit, and through going on to a stabilized position without anger and without self-pity. His natural tendency to harbor animosity and
his desire for revenge (which makes it hard to forgive an offense) is changed into an inner relaxed peace, so that he does not hold grudges.
The Transformed Phlegmatic
Finally, the changes in the phlegmatic, when he is transformed from his unsaved to his Christian and spiritually mature days, interestingly
enough, are not as stark as, say, when a melancholic changes from unsaved to a super grace level of living. The reason for this is that
a phlegmatic, by temperament, has a lot of the qualities we call good Christian qualities. He already has them on a humanistic level.
So the changes are not as apparent as in the other types. However, the external calm (that characterizes him generally) now has an internal
reality, which it did not before. The phlegmatic is easygoing and calm on the outside, but he's a raging torrent (he's a cauldron) on the
inside.
The lack of motivation and the indifference which characterizes the phlegmatic will be changed by vision from the Holy Spirit to make him a
participant. He takes on things for the Lord's sake now. His natural reticence and his fear is changed by confidence which the Spirit of God
gives him. He's drawn out of his shell, and can actually become a leader. The biting humor is changed to an influence of cheer and encouragement
to others. He stops teasing. He stops throwing cold water.
His inhibitions in dealing with people are lost through this desire to witness for Christ. When he does witness (when he does speak), a
phlegmatic, while being reticent to get up and say things in front of people, when he does, his thoughts are generally so well thought out
and so logical, that his remarks are impressively forceful.
His natural inclination to be dependable and efficient is greatly used by the Spirit of God, and he receives great opportunities for using
them. His tendency to extreme selfishness is replaced by a generous spirit motivated by the needs of others. The stubborn quality which is
borne of that desire not to get involved (that so characterizes the phlegmatic to protect himself from involvement) is changed to
cooperative yieldedness to God's plans, and he is willing to pay the price that he was not before.
You can probably spot right there that many of us have a streak of the phlegmatic in us – this inclination not to get involved.
Somebody calls you on the phone and says, "Hello. What are you doing today?" And right away he hears the phlegmatic streak come through.
"Why? What do you want?" You could have said, "I'm not doing a thing. I'm just sitting here watching old television programs." But the
phlegmatic streak protects itself against getting involved.
Identifying your Temperament
Alright, let's tie it up – identifying your temperament:
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It is easiest to determine your own particular temperament between the ages of 15 to 35. After 35 years of age, it becomes
less pronounced. Experience begins knocking the edges off your weaknesses, and you begin to find some adaptability by the sheer fact of having
lived a while. Until you come to the age of 15, you haven't really matured to an identifiable personality.
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You identify your strengths first. In these lists that we have made, do not look at the weaknesses. Look only at the good things. Identify all
the things that are fine, wonderful, and good about you – all the noble qualities that you can see that characterize yourself. You can
be more objective and truthful to yourself about those. Then after you've identified the qualities, you will see what temperament these
qualities fall in. Then look at the weaknesses. A lot of people, when they look at the weaknesses, change their mind about those particular
qualities, and being in that particular temperament. Therefore, don't look at the weaknesses. Look at the strengths first.
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Remember that no one has a single temperament type. You're the mixture of at least two, though one will be dominant. You might even be the
kind of a person that's kind of balanced between all four temperaments, and then it will be very difficult to identify yourself, because you
have balanced yourself out, one against another. No one is a single temperament type.
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Temperaments of parents and grandparents are clues to one's own inherited temperament. That's where you receive your temperament. So the
temperaments of your parents will give you a clue to anticipate what you will be in large measure. Your grandparents will also contribute
to that identification.
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Certain childhood training sometimes obscures one's real temperament. Certain qualities in your environment, and the way you were reared,
will inhibit expressions of your temperament. Until the inhibitions are removed, it will be hard to spot the fact that you are of this
temperament type.
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Also, physical conditions may affect one's temperament, making it harder to spot. You may be more or less active than you really by temperament
are, simply because you may have a physical problem – a physical ailment that's changing your normal expressions.
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The more advanced one's spiritual maturity structure is toward super grace living, the harder it is to identify basic temperament weaknesses.
That should be self-evident. The farther you go toward spiritual maturity, the more the weaknesses have been neutralized, and therefore, the
harder it will be to identify these temperaments.
The exact percentage of each temperament which one possesses cannot be determined very readily. So you can maybe come up with some percentages
that you're so much this and so much this, but it's really hard to do that.
Cautions about Determining Temperaments
There are certain cautions:
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No temperament is more desirable than any other. All are in God's plan for our blessing. The one you have is in God's particular plan for you.
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God's sovereignty has determined your temperament to meet His plan for your life. You were born in a certain family to get a certain temperament
to perform a certain plan that God has for you.
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The analysis of temperaments is to be used to relate better to a person, and to understand yourself properly. They're not to be used to hurt
someone. So don't go around and see something that somebody does, and say, "Oh, yeah, boy, you can spot that phlegmatic every time." That
isn't the point of this study. The point is personal: your relationship to people; and, your understanding of yourself.
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Temperament inclines one to a pattern of behavior which in time hardens into a habit.
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Temperament weaknesses can be neutralized by the filling of the Holy Spirit, and the development of a spiritual maturity structure in the soul.
The pinnacle is reached at the super grace level.
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Temperament weaknesses can explain one's behavior, but they cannot be used as an excuse for it. So don't say, "Well, I'm the sanguine type. I
just never finish anything." You cannot use your temperament type as an excuse.
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All these strengths in every temperament are stronger in some people than in others. However, you will find that the greater your strengths are,
also the greater the weaknesses of that particular temperament type are. So be on your guard.
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Wishing for another temperament is not the solution for objectionable weaknesses, but building a spiritual maturity structure to super grace
level will neutralize those weaknesses.
So if you put it all together, the apostle Paul has given us the clues for a fantastic entering into the happiness which characterizes
God. Understanding yourself, relative just to the way you are by nature as to your personal temperament, will help give you some direction
on how to do what Paul calls upon us to do here in the Word of God in entering happiness always.
I must point out that if you didn't know anything about what you've heard in the past couple of sessions, and if you didn't know a thing
about temperaments, but if you followed what Philippians 4:8-9 gives in the principles of programming your thinking and programming your
experience, you would come out to the same place of removing weaknesses from your temperaments. So it's not all that hard. If you didn't
know these things, but if you followed the pattern of Scripture on focusing upon divine viewpoint thinking and practicing divine viewpoint
actions, you would come out with the same results. Knowing the temperaments will help you to guide yourself more specifically in the
corrections, and in being on guard as to where Satan can get out. The weaknesses were put there by the devil. The weaknesses are where Satan
is going to hit you. He's not going to hit you in your strengths. He's going to get you on the weaknesses that have been attached to your
particular splendid temperament type.
Dr. John E. Danish, 1973
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